In a mixing bowl combine the egg whites, oil, milk, sour cream, and vanilla gently with a whisk. Then sift in your cake mix and sprinkles and gently stir.
Fill 24 cupcake liners ¾ full with cupcake batter and bake at 350℉ for 15-20 minutes (or until a toothpick stuck in the middle of a cupcake comes out clean).
Frosting:
Beat butter and vanilla together until fluffy. Add strawberry jam and beat until incorporated.
Add powdered sugar, 1 cup at a time. Mix until frosting is fluffy. It will seem kind of dry, so add 1-2 Tablespoons of milk until it's the consistency you like.
Pipe onto cooled cupcakes and top with sprinkles (if you want).